Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents` Aggressive
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Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents` Aggressive
Danuta Borecka-Biernat* Psychology Institute of Wroclaw University Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior when Dealing with Difficult Social Situations Abstract The objective of studies was the definition of personality and family determinants of aggression strategy used by adolescent youth difficult social situations. Basing on the analysis of collected study material it can be stated that aggressive strategy in adolescent youth is favoured by the lower evaluation of their own possibilities and feeling of the lack of influence on the course of difficult situation. Furthermore, the state of increased emotional stress and anxiety, accompanying the difficult social situation stimulates, in particular the boys, to use the aggressive methods. In the considerations about the family genesis of coping strategy there have been confirmed the suppositions that improper parental attitudes and aggressive strategy patterns delivered by the parents are the favouring conditions for the development of youth aggressive coping strategy in difficult social situations. ■ Introduction According to T. Tomaszewski (1984), a notion of ‘difficult situation’ is strictly connected with activities that an individual carries out in order to regulate their relations with the surroundings. A person must regulate * Corresponence address: Danuta Borecka-Biernat, Instytut Psychologii, Uniwersytet Wrocławski, ul. Dawida 1, 50-527 Wrocław; e-mail: [email protected]. 102 Danuta Borecka-Biernat their relations with physical and social surroundings, and its results condition an individual’s mood, proper functioning and development. Confrontation of a person with environment may be a source of problems that may arise from maladjustment between requirements of the environment and its individual resources. In the event of disturbing balance between requirements of the surroundings and subject’s possibilities, a difficult situation or stress is usually discussed (Tomaszewski, 1984; Lazarus, Folkman, 1984; Tyszkowa, 1986; Heszen-Niejodek, 2000). In such situations an individual’s activities encounter obstructions, become restrained, and sometimes achieving an aim is foiled. Thus, satisfying needs and realization of subjective drives may be endangered. Difficult situations usually expose an individual to experiencing negative emotions, and protection against physical and psychical failures is natural in this condition. What is significant for these situations is that they force an individual to change the existing structure of activities in order to achieve an intended result, and they finally place it in new relations with outer and intrapersonal environment. Difficult situations are not a consistent class of situations but they are an internally diversified group. Among numerous attempts to divide difficult situations, a proposal of M. Tyszkowa (1979) is popular. This author’s division of difficult situations (ibid., p. 211) specifies difficult interactive social situations, in which “an individual’s values and aspirations under go threats or foiled by other people, by the very fact of their presence or as a result of specific forms of their influence contradictory or inconsistent with individual’s own aspirations”. This category of difficult situations comprises situations in which a man is ridiculed, fiercely criticized by other people from their surroundings (social situations of exposition, evaluation and criticism) or they are entangled with interpersonal conflict (situation of social conflict), or by requirements and demands of others they must amend the aim of their own aspirations or quit important things (a situation of social influence). For a man difficult situations are nothing unusual, on the contrary – they accompany them since early childhood. Every day young people face Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 103 necessity to solve various problems concerning e.g. their home, schoolmates. Research results indicate that for teenagers difficult situations mean speaking in public, being ridiculed by friends or unexpected test and getting a negative grade (cf. Krzyśko, 1999; Mikołowska-Olejniczak , 2002; Lohman, Jarvis, 2000). The empirical material also proves that a conflict with a teacher, arguments with schoolmates or a boyfriend/girlfriend, as well as arguments with one or both parents and other members of the family is an important source of tension during adolescence (cf. Jaworski, 2000; Guszkowska et al., 2001). Furthermore, numerous researches indicates that another significant group of difficult social situation specified by teenagers are situations in which they had to give up important things as a result of force created by requirements, demands and bans of parents, teachers or friends (cf. Guszkowska et. al. 2001; Sikora, Pisula, 2002). In difficult situations constituting a threat for a man, making it hard to satisfy their needs or achieve an intended aim, usually they undertake an activity enabling them to overcome it or improve it. Activity undertaken in a stressful event may be considered in a particular situational context as a strategy of dealing with existing stressful situation (cf. Wrześniewski, 1996). One of main factors deciding about the course of behavior in a difficult situation is a picture of one’s own situation, the notion of subjective perception (Heszen-Niejodek, 1996). When a young person is evaluating a difficult situation as a threat, when contacting a problem they are using mostly strategies of protective character. A common feature of protective strategy in difficult situations is their low effectiveness since they lead to abandon aims. They only allow a man to lower the emotional tension. This is done trough aggression in a form of initiating a physical or verbal attack directed at specific people, doing physical, mental, and social damage to welfare of other people (cf. Frączek, 1996). A concept of mechanical behavior of man in difficult situations described by M. Tyszkowa (1986) has a basic significance for explanation of changes in human behavior in difficult situations. In the author’s opinion, cognitive schemes play a significant role in the genesis of changes in human behavior in difficult situations. They specify processes of perceiving 104 Danuta Borecka-Biernat externals situations, individual’s emotional reflecting the meaning of this situation and the course of one’s own action, and a complex of habits of reacting to emotional tension shaped in particular educational conditions. ■ Research Problems Empirical research concentrated on two groups of problems: 1. Individualistic conditioning of the protective strategy in a form of aggressive reactions to difficulties used by adolescents in difficult social situations, with particular attention paid to the role of selfesteem, sense of control, and level of fear. 2. A role of familial factors in shaping the protective strategy used by adolescents in difficult social situations, such as a role of parental attitude and a modeling parents’ influence. The following research questions were set within the above mentioned groups of problems: 1. What complex of individualistic variables differentiates a high and low level of the strategy of aggression used by adolescence in difficult social situations? 2. What complex of familial variables differentiates a high and low level of the strategy of aggression used by adolescence in difficult social situations? ■ Method Measure. The following were applied in the research: a proprietary survey questionnaire for adolescents dealing with difficult social situations (RTSS) (cf. Borecka-Biernat, 2003), W. Fitts’s Tennessee Self-Concept Scale (TSCS), G. Krasowicz and A. Kurzyp-Wojnarska Self-Control Questionnaire (KBPK), C. Spielberger, J. Strelau, M. Tysarczyk and K. Wrześniewski’s State Trait Anxiety Inventory (ISCL), Roe-Siegelman’s Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 105 PCR form III Questionnaire to survey the perception of parental attitude and a proprietary questionnaire of parents’ dealing with difficult social situations (RRTSS) (cf. Borecka-Biernat, 2004). RTSS questionnaire is intended for research of the strategy of dealing with difficult social situation undertaken by adolescents of medium school age. It consists of descriptions of 30 difficult social situations. Each situation includes three examples of behavior expressing dealing with a difficult situation – the first one refers to aggressive behavior, the second one to avoidance, and the third one to dealing with task-oriented difficult situations. Fitts’s TSCS consists of 100 descriptive statements concerning one’s own person, which are used to self-assess one’s own “self ” applying a phenomenological system of statement classification. Ten of them form so called self-criticism (SC). The other ninety statements make the proper scale. They are put into 8 rates of specific self esteem rates creating a net of three lines (“that’s the way I am”, “that’s how I feel myself ”, “that’s how I behave”) and five columns (“physical self ”, “moral-ethical self ”, “private self ”, “family self ”, and “social self ”). Beside specific self concept, the scale gives the possibility to globally calculate positive rate. KBPK questionnaire is used to measure the personality variable called the sense of control position. It consists of 46 multiple-choice questions; 36 of them are diagnostic positions, and the other 10 are buffer questions. Diagnostic questions concerning simple situations from school life of adolescents make up two scales: a scale of success (S) and a scale of failures (P). Questions referring to successful events make up a scale of success (S), and questions referring unsuccessful events – a scale of failure (P). The total results of both scales make up a rate of generalized sense of control position (S+S). C. Spielberger, J. Strelau, M. Tysarczyk and K. Wrześniewski’s ISCL basically consists of two separate scales, one of which (X-1) is used to measure the condition of fear and the other one (X-2) measure the feature of fear. Both scales are placed on one sheet entitled “The Self-Esteem Questionnaire” on both pages. Below instructions you will find items of the test, 20 for each scale, in a form of short statements concerning subjective feelings of an individual. III Form of PCR Questionnaire (translated by Kowalski, 106 Danuta Borecka-Biernat 1984) is used to measure attitudes of parents to their children. Parents’ attitudes are recognized in perceptions of daughters and sons. A tool prepared by A. Roe and M. Siegelman contains 50 statements for both versions, namely My mother and My father. It consists of five scales, and each one contains ten statements and describes five parents’ attitudes. They are the following: loving attitude, liberal attitude, protective attitude, rejecting attitude, demanding attitude. RRTSS questionnaire is used to measure parents’ strategy to deal with a difficult situation. Parents strategies are recognized in perceptions of daughters and sons. A tool of one’s own authorship contains 36 statements for both versions, namely My mother and My father. It consists of three scales, and each one includes 12 statements and describes three kinds of behavior presenting parents dealing with a difficult situation. They are aggressive dealing, avoidance, and task-oriented dealing with a difficult situation. A survey. Empirical test was conducted in lower-secondary schools in Wroclaw and surrounding towns. They comprised adolescents of 1st and 2nd classes, aged 13–15. They were carried out in two stages. The first stage was aimed at selecting persons of high and low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations in order to create a base for proper research. The initial research comprising all students in a class, a RTSS questionnaire was used in one’s one preparation. 904 students (434 girls and 470 boys) took part in this stage, and finally, 625 students (280 girls and 345 boys) were selected for further research. Then, the second stage was conducted, it comprised persons classified to a critical group (WSA) and a control group (NSA). The WSA group consisted of people who – in their own opinion – are characterized by a high level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations (148 girls and 187 boys), and the NSA group consisted of people that are characterized by a low level of aggression as a strategy (132 girls and 158 boys). The second stage of research consisted in collecting material necessary to obtain answers to posed research problems from selected persons. The following research tools were applied: W. Fitts’s TSCS, G. Krasowicz, A. Kurzyp-Wojnarska’s KBPK, State Trait Anxiety Inventory (ISCL) by Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 107 C. Spielberger, J. Strelau, M. Tysarczyk and K. Wrześniewski, PCR form III questionnaire by A. Roe, M. Siegelman and my own questionnaire of parents’ dealing with difficult social situations in child’s perception. ■ Research Results Analysis Discriminant analysis creates possibilities to determine aggression strategy discriminant used by adolescents in difficult social situationss, taking into account all personality variables. Fourteen personality variables were applied in this statistical method: global self-esteem (p. Glob.), self-esteem rates related to evaluation concerning various fields of “self ” functioning in social roles (“physical self ” (PA), “Moral-ethical self ” (PB), “personal self ” (PC), “family self ” (PD), and “social self ” (PE), self-esteem rates related to living and perception of one’s own self (“that’s the way I am” (PW1), “that’s how I feel myself ” (PW2), “that’s how I behave (PW3)”), the sense of control position for successful situation (S), the sense of control position for failure (S), generalized sense of control position (S+S), fear as temporary state related to difficult position (X-1) and fear as relatively permanent personality trait (X-2). Discriminant analysis allows to find individual differentiations of surveyed people due to the level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations. Discriminants as prognosis rates give bases (in a specified percentage) to correct prediction of belonging of the surveyed people to one of two selected strategies of dealing in difficult situations (cf. Brzeziński, 1984). The present research they are groups of adolescents of high and low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations, taking their sex into account. Groups of high and low level of strategy of dealing with difficult social situations were selected due to high and low results in A scale of RTSS questionnaire. Conducted discriminant analysis of all fourteen personality variables taking into account division of adolescents (total of surveyed people) depending on sex (girls) into two groups allowed to select five following 108 Danuta Borecka-Biernat discriminants: “Moral-ethical self ” (PB), “family self ” (PD), “that’s the way I am” (PW1), “that’s how I feel about myself ” (PW2) and generalized sense of control position (S+S) table 1. It turned out that a decreased set of results with reference to the said variables (lower self-esteem with regard to ethical-moral self, lower self-esteem as a member of the family and its proper functioning, lower self-esteem in particular content fields of “self ”, lower self-contentment and generalized tendency to assign responsibility for consequence of one’s own actions to external factors) to a significant extent is decisive about belonging to a group of these people that apply high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations. Table 1. Personality variables selected as discriminants differentiating between adolescents of high (WSA) and low (NSA) level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations taking sex into account Surveyed people Total Discriminants Wilk’s Lambda F usun. P 1-Toler. (R-kwadr.) PB 0,84 46,88 0,000001 0,55 PD 0,82 35,42 0,000001 0,61 PW1 0,79 8,03 0,005000 0,62 PW2 0,81 27,95 0,000010 0,63 S+S 0,83 39,18 0,000001 0,07 Wilks’ Lambda 0,78; PPR. F (5,619) = 35,21; p < 0,0001 Girls PB 0,82 15,08 0,000090 0,54 PD 0,84 23,07 0,000003 0,65 PW1 0,79 4,18 0,040000 0,66 PW2 0,81 11,08 0,001000 0,70 S+P 0,84 22,87 0,000003 0,07 Wilks’ Lambda 0,77; F (5,274) = 16,00; p < 0,0001 Boys PB 0,84 31,28 0,000001 0,48 PD 0,79 9,64 0,002000 0,47 0,61 PW2 0,80 14,43 0,000200 S+P 0,82 19,81 0,000010 0,10 X-2 0,78 4,09 0,040000 0,24 Wilks’ Lambda 0,77; F (5,339) = 20,27; p < 0,0001 Explanations: PB – “moral-ethical self ”, PD – “family self ”, PW1 – “that’s the way I am”, PW2 – “hat’s how I feel about myself ”, S + P – results total S (successes) and P (failures), X-2 – feartrait. Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 109 The five variables make up for total 22% (Gen.) and 23% (G.) variants. Total power of selected discriminants conditioning correct assignment of particular persons to a group of high and low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations on the basis of discriminant function is moderate and it amounts to 71,84% (Gen.) and 72,86 (G.). The correctness of qualifying persons to a group of a high level of aggression amounts to 73,1% (Gen.) and 73% (G.), and to a group of low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations amounts to 70,35% (Gen.) and 72,73% (G.). Comparison of boys applying aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations and boys using low level of aggression led to including five variables to discriminant formula, differentiating compared groups (see Table 1). They are the following discriminants: “moral-ethical self ” (PB), “family self ” (PD), “that’s how I feel about myself ” (PW2), generalized sense of control position (S+P) and fear comprehended as a trait (X-2). The following configuration of personality discriminants: lower ethical and moral self-esteem, lower self-esteem as a member of family and its proper functioning, lower self-contentment, lower level of generalized sense of control and higher disposition to fear reactions is decisive about high level of aggression occurring at boys as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations. These five variables that were included in the discriminant equation amount to 23% of variables in total. On the basis of the above five discriminants you may appropriately determine the notion of belonging to one or another groups – 71,59% of surveyed boys. The correctness of selecting boys for a group of high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations amounts to 75,40%, and to the group of low level of aggression – 67,09%. On the basis of the above results it was found out that a set of specific personality traits plays the role of discriminants which form the bases to predict to a moderate extent the strategy of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations: rates connected with evaluation of various fields of “self ” functioning in social roles, rates connected with perception and 110 Danuta Borecka-Biernat living one’s one “self ”, generalized belief of an individual on how much they may control events and fear understood as relatively permanent trait. Let us concentrate on Basic psychological factors – discriminants – among sixteen family variables on bases thereon you may qualify persons to a group of high or low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations. Discriminant analysis was applied in order to determine family aggression discriminant (of high and low level) as strategy of adolescents dealing with difficult social situations taking into account five scales of PCR questionnaire in version “My mother” and “My father”: loving attitude (L), rejecting attitude (R), demanding attitude (D), liberal attitude (C), and protective attitude (A), and results in three scales or RRTSS questionnaire “My mother” and “My father”: aggressive dealing with difficult social situations (strategy A), avoidance in difficult social situations (strategy U), and task-oriented dealing with difficult social situations (strategy Z). The discriminant analysis taking into account division of adolescents (the whole group of surveyed people) into two groups allowed to select six discriminants (out of sixteen): protective attitude (A), and liberal attitude (C) perceived at a mother, loving attitude (L) and protective attitude (A) perceived at a father and the following parents’ strategies of dealing with difficult social situations perceived by adolescents: mother’s aggressive strategy (strategy A) and father’s aggressive strategy (strategy A) (see Table 2). The following constellations of family discriminants: mother that does not prevent possible dangers that a child might encounter and does not remove disappointment, harm and anxiety from their experience, does not give them much attention, avoids contact with them and is not interested with their problems and applies a strategy based on aggression in difficult situations, and a father that does not create a warm loving atmosphere, not entering positive relation with his adolescent child, and at the same time protecting them against problems and relieving them of inconvenient difficult situations and trying to remove disappointment, harm and anxiety and applying aggression in difficult social situations is decisive about the fact if the child will be applying high level of aggression when dealing Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 111 Table 2. Family variables selected as discriminants differentiating between adolescents of high (WSA) and low (NSA) level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult social situations taking sex into account Surveyed people Total Discriminants Wilk’s Lambds F usun. P 1-Toler. (R-kwadr.) Mother’s A 0,89 4,34 0,04000 0,30 Mother’s C 0,90 15,12 0,00010 0,08 Father’s L 0,90 15,52 0,00009 0,34 Father’s A 0,90 13,27 0,00030 0,39 Mother’s Strategy A 0,89 5,30 0,02000 0,23 Father’s Strategy A 0,89 7,72 0,00600 0,32 Wilks’ Lambda 0,88; appr. F (6,618) = 13,96; p < 0,0001 Girls Mother’s C 0,85 4,39 0,04000 0,13 Father’s L 0,88 15,19 0,00010 0,36 Father’s A 0,86 8,04 0,00500 0,35 Father’s C 0,85 4,25 0,04000 0,32 Father’s Strategy A 0,85 2,15 0,02000 0,21 Wilks’ Lambda 0,84; F (5,274) = 10,62; p < 0,0001 Boys Father’s R 0,95 12,36 0,00050 0,04 Mother’s Strategy A 0,95 10,26 0,00200 0,04 Wilks’ Lambda 0,92; F (2,342) = 14,74; p < 0,0001 Explanations: A – protective attitude, C – liberal attitude, L – loving attitude, R – rejecting attitude, strategy A – aggressive dealing with difficult social situations. with difficult social situations. It should be emphasized that the emotional distance on one hand (loving attitude ) and concentration (protective attitude) on a child using a strategy based on a high level of aggression proves father’s unbalanced educational attitude towards his adolescent child. Probably, such father’s attitude influences his child’s emotional unbalance, which is manifested by a model of strong aggressive reaction. These six variables that were included in the discriminant equation amount to 22% of variables in total. Total power of selected family discriminants conditioning correct assignment of particular persons to a group of high and low level of aggression as a strategy of dealing with difficult 112 Danuta Borecka-Biernat social situations amounts to 54,42%. The correctness of selecting adolescents for a group of high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations amounts to 67,67%, and to the group of low level of aggression – 60,69%. Furthermore, separate discriminant analyses were carried out on family variables for groups selected depending on sex (see Table 2). The discriminant analysis of all sixteen family variables taking into account a division of girls into two groups allowed to select five discriminants: Mother’s liberal attitude (C), loving attitude (L), protective attitude (A), and father’s liberal attitude (C) and father’s aggressive strategy of dealing with difficult social situations perceived by daughters. The parameters of discriminant equation: a mother that does not pay her daughter too much attention, avoids contact with her and is not interested in her problems and at the same time tolerating aggressive behavior and a father not creating a warm loving atmosphere, not paying her much attention, and not allowing his daughter any confrontations with different situations and with aggressive attitude to a problem – are decisive about the fact if a girl will have a high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations. These five variables that were included in the discriminant equation amount to 16% of variables in total. On the basis of the above five discriminants you may appropriately determine the notion of belonging to one or another groups – 65,59% of surveyed girls. The correctness of selecting groups for a group of high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations amounts to 71,07%, and to the group of low level of aggression – 60,01%. A question arises which of the variables will be included in an equation differentiating boys that use high and low level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations? Data included in Table 2 allow to answer this question. The discriminant analysis of all sixteen family variables taking into account a division of boys into two groups allowed to select two discriminants: father’s rejecting attitude (R) and mother’s aggressive strategy of dealing with difficult social situations perceived by a son (strategy A). Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 113 The following constellation of family discriminants: a father that does not show warmth, does not enter into positive relations with his adolescent son, avoids contact with him and is not interested with his problems, uses severe forms of punishment, and a mother’s basis strategy to deal with difficult situation consists of aggression – is decisive about the fact that the boy belongs to a group using high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations. These two elements of a discriminant equation amount to 8% of total variable. Total power of selected two discriminants conditioning correct assignment of particular persons to a group amounts to 61,16% of surveyed boys. The correctness of selecting boys for a group of high level of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations amounts to 62,57%, and to the group of low level of aggression – 58,49%. On the basis of the above results it was found out that a set of specific family traits plays the role of discriminants which form the bases to predict to a moderate extent the strategy of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations: parents’ attitudes perceived by adolescents – liberal attitude, mother’s protective attitude, father’s loving, protective, rejecting and liberal attitude and parents’ strategies of aggression when dealing with difficult situations perceived by adolescents. ■ Research Results Summary The conducted research shows that adolescents that have low self-esteem in different social roles and constellations, especially these aspects of their “self ” that are strictly connected with social interactions, apply the strategy of aggression when dealing with DSFSS. It must be kept in mind that a characteristic feature of “self ” is information about oneself and one’s own possibilities to influence events. The results suggest that adolescents’ strong belief about other’s influence on positive and negative effects of events play a role in choosing a strategy of aggression of dealing with difficult social situations. It proves that adolescents using the aggression 114 Danuta Borecka-Biernat strategy when dealing with difficult social situations are not convinced about the possibility of free influence on events and they cannot take responsibility for their successes or failures. Similar results were obtained by J. Rola and E. Pisula (1993) and T. Rostowska (2001). Situations of difficult social contact evoke negative emotional process at adolescents (fear) which generates, especially at boys, a defensive form of reaction which consists of aggressive confrontation with a difficult situation. It was found out on the basis of analysis of research material that the source of strategy of adolescents’ dealing with difficult situation a family environment is tolerating aggression by a mother and father, especially in case of girls. Tolerance is of a form of allowing aggression (father’s overprotective attitude towards a daughter) or not punishing for it (mother’s and father’s liberal attitude towards a daughter). Parents’ tolerating aggressive behavior (according to the theory of acquisition) gives positive enhancement strengthening the said behavior (cf. Kirwil, 1992; Obuchowska, 2001). Father’s unbalanced attitude, especially towards daughters, is also interesting. It has been found out that fathers behave in a cold way towards them, they do not show them that they are loved, and at the same time they are perceived as those preventing dangers that girls might encounter and trying to remove disappointment, anxiety and harm from their experience. Such a father is not always interested in his daughter’s problems, but shows her positive emotion occasionally. Sometimes he recalls that he is a father and then he is focused on his daughter too much, he restricts her contacts with friends and relieves her of her duties. Emotional distance on the one hand (loving attitude/negative rate), and concentration on the other (protective attitude) towards girls using a strategy based on aggression proves fathers’ unequal educational attitude towards daughters. Emotional instability experienced in relations with fathers is a strong frustrating factor which makes girls showing an increased level of aggression towards the environment with difficult social situations (cf. Kobak, Sceery, 1988). It should be also emphasized that daughters’ fathers use aggression strategies in their actions. It means that a father perceived as using a strategy based on aggression in situations of emotional Individualistic and Familial Conditioning of Adolescents’ Aggressive Behavior... 115 tension contributes to modeling a strategy based on aggressive behavior at their daughters, used in difficult social situations (cf. Rostowska, 1996). You may refer to the principal of sociocultural identification theory which claims that the significant influence on the socializing process of a girl is made by personality traits of this parent that a girl is identifying with, and not a fact of compliance of the sex of a model and a person identifying with them (cf. Rychlak, Legerski, 1967). The analysis of research results have also revealed that rejecting father’s attitude contributes to shaping an aggressive method of dealing with difficult social situations, especially of boys. A boy experiences hostility, disapproval, criticism, rejection and severe punishment used by a father. Furthermore, relations between boys and mothers in the surveyed groups indicate that mothers provide boys with aggressive models of reacting to difficulties. Boys learn aggressive reactions to difficulties by observing mothers’ behavior in conditions of emotional distress and attitude to difficulties and failures. It should be also noticed that father’s negative aggression towards his son, i.e. physical punishment, play a significant modeling function. It should be underlined that all forms of punishments used by parents are treated as a sigh of aggression towards a child, being a kind of behavioral model which is strengthened in a form of habit of aggressive reaction to other persons, things, or task (cf. Grochulska, 1993). A boy of tern beaten by his father will transcribe the same kind of behavior into relations of other adolescents, which with time will become a method of dealing with problems arising from functioning in social surroundings (cf. 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The following were applied to measure to measure variables: a proprietary survey questionnaire for adolescents dealing with difficult social situations (RTSS), W. Fitts’s Tennessee Self-Concept Scale (TSCS), G. Krasowicz and A. Kurzyp-Wojnarska Self-Control Questionnaire (KBPK), C. Spielberger, J. Strelau, M. Tysarczyk and K. Wrześniewski’s State Trait Anxiety Inventory (ISCL), Roe-Siegelman’s PCR form III Questionnaire to survey the perception of parental attitude and a proprietary questionnaire of parents’ dealing with difficult social situations (RRTSS). Empirical research comprised 625 students 9280 girls and 345 boys) of the 1st and 2nd class of lower secondary schools, aged 13–15. The conducted research shows that adolescents that have low self-esteem in different social roles and constellations, especially these aspects of their “self ” that are strictly connected with social interactions, apply the strategy of aggression when dealing with difficult social situations. The 120 Danuta Borecka-Biernat results also revealed that adolescents’ strong belief about other’s influence on positive and negative effects of events play a role in choosing a strategy of aggression of dealing with difficult social situations. It is also interesting that situations of difficult social contact evoke negative emotional process at adolescentss (fear) which generates, especially at boys, a defensive form of reaction which consists of aggressive confrontation with a difficult situation. An analysis of research results has indicated that aggression as a method of adolescents reacting to emotional tension occurring in a difficult situation is shaped in educational atmosphere that is characterized by lack of positive emotions, emotional coldness, or parents’ excessive concentration on an adolescent child. Furthermore, what is relevant for shaping an aggressive strategy of adolescents is a model of aggressive strategy to deal with difficult social situations provided by their parents.