December/January Newsletter
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December/January Newsletter
December 2012/January 2013 SOURCE: MARIE CLAIRE, FREDERIC LUCANO When you look back at your family album and photos of Christmases 50 years ago, you can see how much simpler it all was. The intent has not changed much but our means certainly have. Hardship and poverty are painful to deal with all year round but t hey can be particularly hard to those less privileged during the holiday season. We would like to take this opportunity to thank all the M&T families who have been giving their generous support to Moms and Tots’ ongoing charity projects, especially the “Letter to Santa” project. The challenge now will be to maintain the momentum as we head towards Christmas and into the New Year. We believe that everyone, big and small, can participate and contribute something, an amazing donation or a small gesture. With a little will there is always a way to give. And with this we are wishing you all the things that make Christmas time merry - the scent of a Christmas tree in the house, going back home to spend time with your families, the aroma of freshly baked cookies. And though it’s not always white, may it always be happy and merry, giving us a chance to curl up on t he sofa to watc h a favorite Christmas movie, be it Love Actually or maybe Die Hard for some. Sipping on mulled wine and sharing that special feeling when everyone is sharing a meal together. Decorating the tree, unwrapping presents and finally ringing in the New Year with family and friends. We’re looking forward to seeing all our friends again next year and making new ones as well! Happy Holidays! - Maria by searching for Mums and Tots About the editors of this month’s issue: Maria was born in Warsaw and after spending many years in Scandinavia she is now rediscovering this city all over again, this time as a mom. Former journalist and editor, she now works as a translator and tries to make sense of her trilingual children on daily basis. Kasia is a Canadian with Polish roots. She originally came to Poland to work as a Montessori teacher and eventually made Warsaw her new home. She is now a proud mom of Miriam, almost one, and is also fulfilling her dream of running her own preschool, Maple Tree Montessori. They also both dislike talking about themselves in third person but figure that this is the appropriate thing to do in this situation. of Warsaw December / January newsletter coordinator Rebeka Sundin INSIDE THIS MONTH’S ISSUE Editor’s Note................page 1 Mums&Tots news..........page 4 Out and About.............page 6 Super Parents...............pages 2-3 Polish Culture...............page 5 Crafts and Cooking.......page 7 Give Back a Little ........pages 2-3 Christmas Fairs..............page 5 City Calendar...............page 8 Give Back a Little Here are a few ideas that can help our families get involved and understand the spirit of Christmas charity Ask them how THEY want to help Talk to your kids about which causes might concern them and discuss ways in which they could help. Maybe they want to plant a tree? Maybe they want to take some blankets to an animal shelter? Use a credit card that donates a portion of each transaction to charity These so-called affinity cards are available in most banks and support charities ranging from UNICEF, WWF to the Make a Wish Foundation. Ask your bank for details. Encourage non-material gifts Think dog-walking or baby-sitting coupons. You and your kids know your friends and family best, maybe someone needs a home-made meal or help with gardening? Make space for the new Set aside a day to work with your children on clearing out their rooms, their wardrobes and maybe yours as well? Take a charity trip Making the actual trip to deliver donations could prove that the kids are far more mature than we give them credit for. Psychological proof of holiday spirit The Journal of Consumer Psychology published a study of the effects of gift wrapping. It was found that: Gift wrap improves the mood and attitude towards t he gif t being received. Gift wrap can cue happy moods because it is consistently associated with holidays or a special occasion. Happy moods were increased when t he gif t was wrapped in traditional paper and given on a birthday. souce: searchenginejournal.com ML SOURCE: AWHITECAROUSEL.COM Christmas = ... Shopping? December is upon us, and with it the inevitable introduction of Christmas sales, carols in the shopping malls and wish lists. Have you ever given any thought to what Christmas would be like without so many gifts under the tree? In today’s culture, it seems unrealistic to think that many children could handle getting only one gift as opposed to a pile-full. Elizabeth Kolber t, journalist, says “Contemporary American kids may represent the most indulged young people in the history of the world ... they’ve been given unprecedented amounts of stuff,” in her New Yorker article Spoiled Rotten: Why do kids rule the roost? Kolbert is right that ALL of us (not just kids) have so much stuff today. And this raises the question of why so many children today seem to feel so entitled. Of course this isn’t true of all young people and we all know plenty of kids who aren’t “entitled” and know how to express gratitude for what they have. However, there are many families and children who seem to feel “entitled” to lots of material possessions ... what would happen is there WAS only one present under the Christmas tree as opposed to 10? How do we avoid this sense of entitlement that seems to be growing? Teach Values. What matters most to you? The people you love, helping others in need, or following your passions?? I’d be surprised if you mentioned a material ‘thing’. Kids need to explicitly hear and see through your actions that ‘stuff’ does not equal happiness. Role Model. Children may not always do what you say, but they’ll always do what you do. If you go shopping for fun, so will your children. If you “must have” the latest tech toy (i-pad mini anyone? :), your children will do the same. Counteract the message that happiness can be purchased. As parents, we must realize that we’re not the only ones teaching our children about life. TV is a very effective teacher, and if it has your child’s ear, then it has a direct line to her brain. We are all bombarded with the message that the goal of life is to have more money and more things, and kids, who are so easily influenced, learn this from the media. In the end, what we model and tell them will matter more, but we need to confront t hese destructive messages directly, and when possible, keep them from reaching our kids. Recognize that buying is an addiction, since our brains give us a hit of dopamine every time we chase, conquer and acquire. It isn’t the wanting that gets us into trouble, it’s WHAT we want. Material things don’t satisfy our hunger for more than a day or so before we crave more (how many of us have experience the newly bought toy that gets played with for a day before starting to collect dust on the shelves?!). Help your kids discover the emotional rewards of other kinds of chases besides shopping, such as practicing and getting good at soccer, cooking, music, writing or some other passion (this should be Give back a little Adopt an animal There are some great “things” you can adopt at Christmas time and kids will love picking something out - maybe an animal, a rainforest or even a coral reef? Check out the site for the Warsaw Zoo for something closer to home. Help out a neighbor Chances are there is someone who might need help come Christmas time, be it with snow work or carrying all that heavy shopping. SOURCE: ELLEDECOR VIA PINTEREST the child’s passion for it to be rewarding for them). game of sharing things you’re grateful for on a daily basis. Don’t feed emotional hunger with possessions. When parents feel guilty for not spending enough time with their children, they tend to start buying them things. That’s a sign that we should clear out our schedules, and sort out how to set up rituals in your family that allow you to spend more time together. There’s an old saying that says children come out best when you give them half as many presents and twice as much of your presence. Educate yourself. Children aren’t being raised in a vacuum. Our culture is centered around consumption accumulating more and more stuff. We are all surrounded by messages that buying stuff will make your life better, and it’s hard not to respond. There’s a fantastic video called The Story of Stuff that may change the way you look at things and perhaps change the way your family lives. Don’t buy your child off. Find ways other than bribery to help your child want to cooperate. Occasional rewards are fine, but bribes teach all the wrong lessons. Hold your child accountable for damaged goods. If your kids help pay for lost library books and clothes, things broken through carelessness, etc. from their own savings, they learn an incredibly valuable lesson about valuing what they have, rat her t han assuming t hat someone else will simply “buy another.” Every child deserves the pleasure of giving his own money to a worthy cause. This is a great way for children to learn about those in need, giving some perspective to our own lives of relative plenty. Let him give his own money away so that he can have the same good feeling that you have when you give to charity. Cultivate gratitude, everyday! Don’t let your kids take things for granted by doing something simple like making a If today’s kids feel entitled, it’s not because they’re ‘bad,’ it’s because we’re raising them in a culture of entitlement, a culture that values the acquisition of stuff over developing our own unique gifts to contribute to the world. Quite often we also compound this problem by not teaching them the value of hard work. Keeping these things in mind does work, and what’s more, they make your life better and fuller. By taking away the emphasis on stuff, we can start to pay attention to things that actually matter; making a meaningful contribution to our community, which is essential to happiness. - Kasia Hudz-Skoczek Kasia based her research for the article on a parenting blog - Aha! Parenting. Next month’s article: How fatherhood has changed in the last 50 years. Give someone a loan... Kiva.org provides loans to entrepreneurs around the world, using the internet to support microfinance programs, which target impoverished women, with the goal of empowering them through their newfound financial responsibility. The entire family benefits when a woman receives a loan. According to a World Bank report, women reinvest 90 percent of their income toward their families. Kiva loan recipients are over 80 percent female. ... or a goat Organizations such as heifer.org work to eradicate poverty in communities by providing livestock and training so that families can create a sustainable income. Each family passes on the animal’s offspring to another family in need, thus multiplying and expanding the "living loan." Heifer makes a great gift because you can choose what animal to donate, and the donor receives a card with details about the specific animal given in their name. The Gift of Time Sometimes the only thing that our loved ones need is the gift of our presence here and now. A walk in the park, a chat over a cup of coffee - we all know it’s the little things. ML Surprise your kids with Christmas greetings from the Santa Claus in Lapland. All you need to do is send a letter to Santa using this address: Santa Claus, Santa Claus Main Post Office, FI-96930 Arctic Circle, Finland Fingers crossed it works! MUMS & TOTS PAGE 24 HR PHARMACIES IN WARSAW A big thanks to Tshego, our Bumps and Babies Coordinator, for her tip this week from mums in the Bumps and Babies group. Here’s their list on where to find some 24-hour Pharmacies in Warsaw! Please remember the Polish word for pharmacy is apteka. BEMOWO PRAGA NORTH Apteka w Pasażu, ul. Powstańców Śląskich 106D, 22 417 32 92 Apteka Juventa ul. Jagiellońska 66A, 22 670 17 69 BIAŁOŁĘKA ŚRÓDMIEŚCIE Apteka, ul. Światowida 47 lok. 10, 22 466 14 05 Apteka Franciszkańska, ul. Franciszkańska 14/102, 22 635 35 25 BIELANY Apteka Mirowska 24, plac Mirowski 1, 22 620 02 66 Apteka Juventa, ul. Żeromskiego 13, 22 834 58 04 Plac Zbawiciela, ul. Mokotowska 12, 22 622 36 36 MOKOTÓW URSUS Apteka Dbam o Zdrowie, ul. Gagarina 6, 22 841 37 83 Apteka Mediq ul. Plutonu Torpedy 47, 22 867 50 22 Apteka Przy Willowej, ul. Puławska 39, 22 849 37 57 URSYNÓW Apteka Remedium, al. Wilanowska 363; 22 852 33 31 Apteka Przy Bażantarni 11, 22 649 65 75 OCHOTA WOLA Apteka na Banacha, ul Banacha 1A, 22 599 10 33 Apteka Beata, al. Jana Pawła II 52/54, 22 635 96 26 Apteka Panaceum, ul. Grójecka 76, 22 822 28 91 Apteka Beata, al. Solidarności 149; 22 620 08 18 Apteka, ul. Żwirki i Wigury 43A, 22 883 19 20 Apteka, ul. Leszno 38, 22 632 35 22 PRAGA SOUTH Apteka 24, ul. Grochowska 256; 22 870 32 49 You can bookmark the list at Apteka Remedium, al. Waszyngtona 12/14, 22 617 54 10 Coordinator News Finding hosts for M&T meetings can sometimes be tough or unpredictable, particularly during flu season when the babies and toddlers fall sick suddenly. We’d like to help publish a list of cafes, playgrounds, or play centers where M&Ts can meet up regularly. Thanks Tshego for starting the list off with some great locations throughout Warsaw. We would like to hear from moms from all the districts in Warsaw. www.apteki24.waw.pl How many many presents will your kids receive this holiday season? a) we don’t celebrate with gifts b) one or two (not to mention the sweets) c) three to five d) too many ;) Please write in to the newsletter at [email protected] or on Facebook with your favorite meeting place. We’ll publish the list in our next edition. Watch our FB page and the M&T website to take part in the poll!!! Christmas may be three weeks away but here are some numbers to get you in the holiday spirit 600,000 - number of cards received each year by Santa Claus in Lapland 331,038- record number of lights on a Christmas tree in Australia last year 93 - percent of women surveyed in July 2012 in the UK who had already started stockpiling Christmas presents 2 billion - amount of Christmas cards Americans send annually but only15 percent of cards are bought by men 8 The number of Santa's original reindeer, according to the 1823 poem, "A Visit from St. Nicholas." Their names were: Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner and Blitzen. Rudolph - the star of a 20th century song -- came later. 1 - Santa Claus (of course!) Christmas Fairs and Bazaars in Warsaw Christmas Fair - Jarmark Bożonarodzeniowy, Old Town It’s easy to get into the spirit of Christmas in the Old Town with 70 wooden stalls and vendors from Latvia, Slovakia, Austria, Croatia and Poland, of course. Finally a chance to try Bratwurst, Polish pastr ies and ot her international goodies all in one place. Christmas decorations, souvenirs, religious items and traditional toys are also a va i l a b l e . O l d Tow n M a i n Square. Open daily from 12pm-8pm until Jan 8. Free entrance. Wa r s a w F a i r, J a r m a r k Warszawa A Christmas fair located right in the heart of the city center. Stalls selling traditional items, Christmas decorations and local delicacies. Their Ferris wheel could be a hit with all ages. Plac Defilad 1, in front of the Palace of Culture and Science. Open daily from 11am-8pm until Jan 6. Free entrance. Pchli Targ, December 1st One of Warsaw’s hippest events is back, right before the holidays! Expect a lot of good-quality items such as kids’ clothes, accessories, bedding, books and toys. All designed and made by small labels, run mostly by busy and talented moms. Inside Fort Sokolnickiego, ul. S t e f a n a C z a r n i e c k i e g o 51, Ż o l i b o r z , 11 a m - 6 p m . F r e e entrance. Planning on visiting other Polish cities before or during t h e h o l i d a y s ? Wr o c ł a w , Kraków, Gdańsk as well as many smaller towns are all hosting their own Christmas markets. Check their city websites for details. ML The Queue When was the last time you were stuck in a long line at a major supermarket during “rush-hour”? Your episode of frustration will be nothing compared with what The Queue has in store for you. The Queue’s objective is for a normal family to go do their weekly shopping. Simple, right? Not in communist Poland! The game is indeed insanely ridiculous – yet completely accurate historically. How can you possibly wait 3 days for a shipment of much needed groceries? How is it possible that you can find the baby stroller you desperately need …. at the bakery? Well, that is exactly what my husband’s Polish grandmother did. Sure, I heard the stories of grandma getting up at 6a to stand in line for groceries. But bring on a bit of competitive spirit and then having the store close right in front of your face as you are next in line – and well, I felt an immediate connection with the poor grandma I never personally met. This game has become my favorite going away gift for family and friends visiting Poland for the first time. The game itself made quite a splash when it was launched internationally as the Polish communist “Monopoly” game this summer. I especially liked its fun cultural references and for managing to push your buttons in the name of history. Here’s a game where you have to strategize and unfortunately for your neighbor, to show a bit of vindictiveness in order to win. I’d recommend finding or borrowing someone’s grandma when playing this game for the first time for their “oohs” and “ahs” over The Queue’s use of authentic government-issue ration coupons and authentic slogans, images and actual goods of this period. The game (suitable as well for children 8 and up) presents a great opportunity to learn even more farcical stories and historical lessons of this by-gone era. You can find the game at your local Empik or at the Institute of National Remembrance in Warsaw, more information available on their website: http://www.ipn.gov.pl/portal/en/ - Rebeka Sundin OUT AND ABOUT IN WILANÓW International Healthcare Private practice owned by dr. Dorota Ossowska and dr. Andrzej Gajer These are family doctors that run a general practice and can also help you with vaccinations. They both speak English, as does the receptionist, and are very good at helping out over the phone as well. Ul. Chorągwi Pancernej 50, tel. 22 8580101 Wilanów Family Practice The private practice offers comprehensive medical care for all ages, on site blood draw and diagnostic testing, minor surgical procedures, and basic podiatry located at ul. Kosiarzy 37/90, tel. 226427404, 602268826 Dr. Hodun, American trained physical therapist at 516-076-122 Office hours 12:30pm-7pm on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays, Saturdays 9am-12pm. Thursdays Dr. Gajer is available at the Medicover Hospital Emergency Room. Molo Kids Cafe Not just a cafe. They also run activities for kids throughout the week including E.E. Gordon music classes and general development classes for both older and younger kids. Parents also have something for them there, with an assortment of books to read, WiFi and delicious coffee. You can also organize your kids’ birthday party there. ul. Klimczaka 17, open Tue-Sun 10am-7pm www.molokidscafe.pl Batida pastries One of Warsaw’s favorite patisseries is now also open in Wilanów. Visit them for mouthwatering macaroons, pralines and pastries. They can also prepare pre-ordered Christmas pastries and cakes. Yum! ul. Klimczaka 17, lok. 202 www.batida.pl Golf Parks Poland A driving range on Vogla, with 30 stations on the main range, a putting green, short game area, practice sand bunker and mini golf. There is also a store that has everything a golfer needs, and a small restaurant to sit down for a break. ul. Z. Vogla 19 golfparkspoland.pl Nowa Kuźnia This restaurant right next to the Wilanów palace has a whole section in the back dedicated to kids. There’s an area for them to colour and play with a staff member watching out for them. The restaurant itself is also quite classy. Once you’re in Wilanów it’s also hard to find a place to “go out” for the night. In the SOURCE: MARC BEN FATMA VIA FLICKR evening, there’s a small pub area that opens up, so husbands can go watch the latest Arsenal game here :) ul. Kostki Potockiego 24, nowakuznia.pl Milanovo Another family-friendly restaurant in Wilanów near the palace. On the weekends they also have an “entertainer” there who helps keeps kids busy so mum and dad can enjoy a “date afternoon.” ul. Kostki Potockiego 24G, www.milanovo.pl Little Gym Wilanów A gym for the little ones. Its age-specific curriculum is scheduled in weekly lesson plans to build skills sequentially and classes are held in English and Polish. ul. Bruzdowa 56, www.thelittlegym.eu/poen/warsaw/welcome Wilanów palace and gardens Always a fun and educational trip for the whole family. The Polish Versailles is a mustsee and the surrounding gardens have been recently renovated, and are especially beautiful in the summer. www.wilanow-palac.pl/palace.html Zawady Islands If you fancy a walk and nature watching then head towards the river to the Zawady Islands nature reserve. The reserve was created in 1998 and lets hikers see the Vistula river in its element, with all its temporary islets, shoals and quite amazing fauna, which if you’re lucky, could include a white-tailed eagle. Head towards the river, along the floodbank. Maple Tree Montessori The newest international Montessori preschool in Wilanów. They run activities throughout the week including Orff-based music classes, art for parents and kids and Capoeira gymnastics classes. ul. Piechoty Łanowej 46a, www.mapletreemontessori.pl www.facebook.com/MapleTreeMontessori Bistecca Bistro Small restaurant that loves and serves meat. Their specialties include T-bone steak and bistecca. Summer terrace and wi-fi. ul.Branickiego 11 www.bistecca.pl Plaża Wilanów - Wilanów Beach A little touch of the seaside (minus the sea) in Warsaw. Tons of yellow sand, sun loungers, umbrellas and a playground should keep all age groups happy. There are also two bars and a small food kiosk. Corner of Przyczółkowa and Klimczaka streets, open from May to September Swimming in Wilanów If you live in the area, then Wilanów has its own sport hall, complete with a swimming pool and gym, with a whole range of children's swimming classes. ul. Wiertnicza 26, www.basen.wilanow.pl In our next issue we’ll be looking at the vibrant riverside community of Powiśle. Please send in all your hints and recommendations to [email protected] contributions from Kasia Hudz-Skoczek, Maria Laitalainen and Rebeka Sundin Cooking with kids! Granola Power Bars You will need: Preparation: • 1 cup old-fashioned rolled oats 1. Preheat oven to 350°F. Coat an 8inch-square pan with cooking spray. • 1/4 cup slivered almonds • 1/4 cup sunflower seeds • 1 tablespoon flaxseeds, or len • 1 tablespoon sesame seeds • 1 cup unsweetened wholegrain puffed cereal 2. Spread oats, almonds, sunflower seeds, flaxseeds and sesame seeds on a rimmed baking sheet. Bake until the oats are lightly toasted and the nuts are fragrant, shaking the pan halfway through, about 10 minutes. Transfer to a large bowl. Add cereal, currants, apricots and raisins; toss to combine. • 1/3 cup currants or żurawina • 1/3 cup chopped dried apricots • 1/3 cup chopped golden raisins • 1/4 cup butter • 1/4 cup brown sugar • 1/4 cup honey • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract • 1/8 teaspoon salt 3. Combine butter, sugar, honey, vanilla and salt in a small saucepan. Heat over medium-low, stirring frequently, until the mixture bubbles lightly, 2 to 5 minutes. 4. Immediately pour the almond butter mixture over the dry ingredients and mix with a spoon or spatula until no dry spots remain. Transfer to the prepared pan. Lightly coat your hands with cooking spray and press the mixture down firmly to make an even layer (wait until the mixture cools slightly if necessary). Refrigerate until firm, about 30 minutes; cut into 8 bars. Tips & Notes: Store in an airtight container at room temperature or in the refrigerator for up to 1 week or freeze for up to 1 month; thaw at room temperature. Note: We never follow the recipe exactly. We just use what we can find, pumpkin seeds, cranberries, whatever. My kids love it as its quick and easy and makes a whole lot of granola! Christmas Crafts: Golden Pasta Tree Supplies: A small styrofoam cone, green paint, green and red marker, glitter glue, several different shapes of dry pasta Directions: Paint the styrofoam cone green and let dry. Use the green marker to color enough pieces of pasta to cover the cone. You can also color some red for berries, or other colors for ornaments. Glue the pasta onto the cone until it is completely filled in (We usually use low temp hot glue gun because it is faster and causes less frustration with the kids. We also work together to make just one tree). You can embellish it with the glitter glue, tinsel, pom poms, etc. to make it look like a Christmas tree. You can also do this same craft differently by gluing all the pasta onto the styrofoam cone without coloring it first. After it dries, you can spray paint it any color you want (metallic paints work well). Leave it plain for a chic look or have the kids embellish it even more after it dries. Taken from http:// www.babycenter.com/ 210_pasta-christmastree_2806.bc RS Source: foodnetwork.com Christmas Star Tutorial December 2012 Mon 3 Tues 4 Wed 5 Jill Scott, Sala Kongresowa 10 11 Thurs 6 18 Sat Sun 1 2 Christmas Tree Illumination, Plac Zamkowy, Old Town AFW Holiday Party, Westin Hotel 8 9 Hanukkah begins Blithe Spirit The Cheerful Hamlets, Dom Kultury Śródmieście 14 15 16 Moscow City Ballet Nutcracker, Sala Kongresowa Moscow City Ballet Nutcracker, Sala Kongresowa Hanukkah ends 7 Vavamuffin Stodoła 12 13 Matana Roberts, Cafe Kulturalna 17 Fri Glenn Miller Orchestra, Sala Kongresowa 19 20 21 22 23 The Nutcracker, National Opera Disney Fantasia 2000, Sala Kongresowa The Nutcracker, National Opera Warsaw Chamber Orchestra Concert, Royal Castle Warsaw Chamber Orchestra Concert, Royal Castle 30 24 25 26 27 28 29 Christmas Eve Christmas Day Boxing Day The Nutcracker, National Opera Christmas Concert feat. Angelique Kidjo, St. John the Baptist Cathedral The Nutcracker, National Opera Harlem Gospel Choir, Sala Kongresowa 31 New Year’s Eve Concert, National Philharmonic Please check venue websites for complete listings. Watch out for the next newsletter coming in February - the Dads’ issue!!!